Wednesday, June 15, 2011

RELATIONSHIP


Just moving to a sentimental context  "Relationship"

Relationship is a board term that has different facets in the world of life. It is the flavour of the life that makes living so interesting. We all build up different relationships with each people right from our birth to death. Relationship with friends, parents, children, siblings, husband/wife, lover, in-laws, colleges, and employees are some of the common bonds that we all share in life. However, what is difficult to strike the right chord and build up a perfect rapport in all the relationships. Otherwise, we would find ourselves as the lone sole surviving in this planet without any social connections.

It is sad but true that we often get to hear about failed relationships or sweet relationships or sweet relationships turned bitter. In the fast-paced life to success people often tend to forget about the essence of a loving relationship and end up hurting each other. Whom should we blame?????? :The people around us with whom we always tend to overlook and start with the blame game process. We never seem to understand that these are the people who make our lives complete and the life will not be the same again without these people

Love is the ultimate soul of life that keeps us connected to happiness and builds up relationship with other people on this earth. Love strengthens a relationship and also balances the life cycle while giving meanings to our individuality. A loving and a good relationships isn’t the one that lasts longer but that is build with mutual self respect, love, and care. It is heartening to witness that many relationships of love falling at the crux of negative thoughts. It is a matter of concern that couples in long distance relationship is also failing to keep up their love alive conquering the distance. Self realization and trust along with a positive attitude towards life is what makes a relationship work.

How to make relationships???

  Ø Love yourself to offer that space of loving you to somebody. Build up that trust in yourself to trust every other individual.

  Ø It is not about ‘I’, it is about ‘us’. Moreover, it is a succeeding relationship that measures the strength of our individuality.

   Ø  Accept your fault in a failed relationship and try to rectify them other than pointing at somebody else’s mistakes.

   Ø Avoid getting into relationships to create your path to success. If you love someone, love unconditionally.

   Ø Stop questioning the other person’s love and believe in him/her.

   Ø Let there be a proper flow of communication in a relationship. Listen to your partner to understand him/her.

  Ø Respect the other person and give him/her the space to grow and build up thee intricacies of life or relationships.

  Ø Do not shy out of making the first move. Take the effort of making the relationship work in your own hands other than waiting for the person to take the first approach.

The truth is that we individuals seem to be so disillusioned with the rising of success that we are filled with negative thoughts. We never seem to understand that a mutual effort is always needed to make relationships work. However, it is also true that often at the twists and turns of life we do stop to ponder about our failing relationships and how to make it work. We do try and realize that discontentment and unhappiness will seldom yield a positive result.

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